spyware guard 2008

I dont think it found either of those.

If i buy a toshiba recovery cd for my laptop is that the same as having my XP disc, because i think my xp disc is gone

The disc might work, depends if the license key for this OS will still work.

Ok i have finally acquired a windows disc. Where do we go from here. It is windows XP SP2 upgrade

See here:

When should I do a reformat and reinstallation of my OS

How to format Windows:
http://www.whitecanyon.com/how-to-format-computer.php

When i put in the windows disc and restart the computer still loads the same as it has been. Any ideas?

Boot order needs to be changed in the BIOS.
When you boot, it will give you "Press DEL to enter BIOS", sometimes it's not DEL, but some other key, it will tell you anyway.

Every BIOS is different, but a general guide on changing boot order is here:
http://www.whitecanyon.com/how-to-change-boot-order.php

Ok i did that and now it says "press any key to boot from CD..." but when hit a key (i tried several different keys) it still does not boot

Do you mean it still won't boot Windows? it's not meant to. It's meant to boot from the CD so we could try a repair install.

It isnt booting at all it is a black screen that reads "press any key to boot from CD" And it doesnt boot just stays on that screen

Still trying to get my laptop running any ideas left for me?

Nope, I've no ideas at this moment.
I'm gonna ask someone later when I see him online.